Help & Support
Find answers to common questions or get in touch with our support team.
Getting Started
Getting Started
How the app works, profile review, messaging, and premium
Guidelines
Profile Guidelines
Rules for display names, bios, and personal details
Photo Guidelines
What photos we accept and what will be rejected
Photo Tips
Practical tips for taking a great profile or extra photo
Writing Your Bio
How to write a concise, genuine bio that connects
Community Standards
The principles behind our rules and how moderation works
Your Account
Account & Settings
Email, password, pausing, deletion, and your data
Profile Status Explained
What pending, approved, rejected, and incomplete mean
Premium Membership
What is included, billing, cancellation, and what happens after
Safety & Community
Staying Safe Online
Recognising scams, protecting yourself, and what we do
Anti-Spam Policy
What counts as spam, consequences, and how to report it
VPN & Proxy Policy
Why VPN and proxy connections are restricted and how premium accounts differ
Reporting a User or Content
How to report and block, and what happens after you report
Legal
Terms of Service
Rules and terms you agree to by using the service
Privacy Policy
How we collect, use, and protect your data
Frequently Asked Questions
How do I create an account?
To create an account, tap the "Create account" button on the login screen. In step 1, enter your email address, create a password, and provide your date of birth (you must be 18 or older). In step 2, enter your legal name (used for verification, never shown publicly) and choose a display name (visible to other users). You'll receive a verification email to confirm your account. Do not use disposable email addresses, as your account will not be created or will be cancelled.
How does location-based discovery work?
CS uses your device's location to show you other users nearby. You can adjust the distance range in your settings. Your exact location is never shared with other users—they only see an approximate distance.
How do I send a message?
Visit a user's profile and tap the "Send message" button. You can also access your conversations from the Messages tab in the navigation bar.
How do I report inappropriate behavior?
On any user's profile, tap the menu button and select "Report." Choose the reason for your report and provide any additional details. Our moderation team will review all reports.
How do I pause or permanently delete my account?
To temporarily pause your account, go to Settings > Privacy and toggle "Take a pause". Your profile will be hidden from other users and you won't see anyone in discovery — but you can log in at any time to resume. Paused accounts receive reminder emails at 30 days, 90 days, and 11 months. If your account remains paused for 1 year it will be automatically and permanently deleted. To permanently delete your account, go to Settings > Delete Account Permanently. Your profile will be hidden immediately and your data will be permanently erased within 30 days. Account deletion is irreversible.
What is Premium?
Premium is a one-time paid upgrade that unlocks additional features including unlimited messages, advanced filters, seeing who likes you, and an ad-free experience. Visit the Premium page in the app to learn more.
Why didn't I receive my verification email?
Check your spam or junk folder first. If you still can't find it, make sure you entered your email address correctly during registration. You can request a new verification email from the login page. Some email providers may delay delivery, so please wait a few minutes before requesting again.
Can I change my email address?
Yes, you can update your email address in your account settings. You will need to verify the new email address before the change takes effect.
Can I change my display name?
Display name changes may be limited to maintain community trust and prevent impersonation. Check your account settings for available options.
Why was my profile photo rejected?
Photos may be rejected if they do not show a clear face, contain text overlays, watermarks, borders, collages, stickers, AI-generated imagery, explicit content, or photos of minors. See our photo guidelines for the full list of requirements.
What are interests and how are they used?
CS infers topic interests (such as music, fitness, or travel) from the text in your profile bio using an automated classification system that runs entirely on our own private servers — your profile text is never shared with any third-party AI service. These interests are used to improve your discover ranking and help surface more relevant profiles. This is disclosed in our Privacy Policy under the Automated Decision-Making section. You may view, edit, or remove your interests at any time from Edit Profile. Removing your interests will stop them from influencing your ranking.
Why am I required to verify my age?
Regulations in certain jurisdictions — currently the United Kingdom (Online Safety Act) and parts of the United States — require us to verify that users are adults before they can send messages. If you see an age verification banner, your account was registered from one of these regions. You can complete verification by either adding a payment card (the card-holder requirement serves as an age signal) or completing a short facial scan. Accounts established before these requirements took effect may be exempt based on account history and prior verification signals.
How does facial age verification work?
Facial age verification uses your camera to capture a short liveness check. The image is sent to our servers, analysed immediately by our own private age estimation service, and then discarded — no raw image is ever stored. Only the result (whether you passed the verification) is retained as proof. Your image is never sent to any third-party service. If the scan does not pass or you prefer not to use your camera, you can verify instead by adding a payment card in the Premium section.
How do I manage or withdraw my biometric consent?
Before your image is captured, you must provide explicit consent to biometric processing. You can decline at any time and choose card verification instead — both methods unlock the same features. If you have already consented and wish to withdraw, contact us at dpo@clubsilver.org. We will delete the stored age estimate and switch your account to card-based verification within 30 days. Withdrawing biometric consent does not affect your account status, but you may need to add a payment card to maintain messaging access.
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